Friday April 12th 2024 - Spring Vermont Family Trip - Derby VT (near Stansted QC) - not really about the walk
Family obligations come in all sorts of forms. When my grandmother died a few years ago, she had made it clear that she wanted me to inherit some of her household belongings. In her end of life period, she lived in an assisted living facility and she took almost nothing from her normal adult life into that facility. The family helped her furnish her little apartment but nothing in there was anything that had any meaning to anybody since it was all new stuff and very unremarkable almost dorm like furniture. When she actually died, most of the 'grandma and grandpa' furniture was already gone and I couldn't/wouldn't or didn't make the effort to come get any of it from Oregon. To be honest it all seemed to happen in silence and I wasn't really aware of the process but even if I was fully aware I'm not sure it would have changed the outcome. Still, I wanted to make sure that I did end up with some things that had that sense of family history. Thankfully,